Effective Communication

TobyMac sings, "If You wanna steal my show, I'll sit back and watch You go. If You got something to say, go on and take it away. Need You to steal my show; can't wait to watch You go-o-o! So take it away!" ("Steal My Show") We can all sing this as a prayer to God so that we can show Him that we are giving Him control!

John 16:29-30 says, "Then Jesus' disciples said, 'Now You are speaking clearly and without figures of speech. Now we can see that You know all things and that You do not even need to have anyone ask You questions. This makes us believe that You came from God.'" (NIV)

Maxwell presents four truths for more effective communication (each is a direct quote):

1. Simplify your message.
2. See the person.
3. Show the truth.
4. Seek a response.

Communication is probably the most critical thing that leaders must learn to use effectively. Maxwell says, "The success of your marriage, job, and personal relationships all depend greatly on communication." If you cannot communicate, your followers will not know what you expect them to do. Maxwell notes that, "The goal of all communication is action." Also, you will be unable to present your vision to them. That will create a major barrier between you and your followers.

If you wish to be an effective leader, you have to learn to communicate effectively. There's virtually no way around it. According to Maxwell, "Credibility precedes great communication." You should learn to excel at it.

There are three things that your communication should present. "Every time you speak to people, give them something to feel, something to remember, and something to do." (Maxwell) Giving your audience something to feel provides a connection. Providing them with something to remember gives them a lasting impression. Finally, presenting them with something to do gives them a way to put what you said to them into action.

Today's reflection question asks, "How well do you incorporate the four truths above in your communication?"

I do pretty well with seeing the person and seeking a response. I could work more on simplifying my message. And showing the truth is an in-between area for me; it could use a little work.

How would you rate yourself in those areas? Think about it, then pray this prayer: Father, please help me to be an effective communicator. Help me to develop the four truths mentioned earlier and to excel at them. I know that You will be with me through everything. Thank You for that! In Jesus' Name I pray. Amen.

God bless you!