Friday, July 31, 2015

Integrity: The Foundation

"Living water, flowing through, God, we thirst for more of You. Fill our hearts and flood our souls with one desire: Just to know You and to make You known, we lift Your Name on high. Shine like the sun. Make darkness run and hide. We know we were made for so much more than ordinary lives. It's time for us to more than just survive. We were made to thrive!...Joy unspeakable; faith unsinkable; love unstoppable; anything is possible!" (Casting Crowns, "Thrive")

Those lyrics remind us that with God, all things are possible. If we keep our focus on Him, He will guide us and provide for us. With Him, we will gain the victory! (See Psalm 60:12.)

The central verse for today is Proverbs 16:12: "Kings detest wrongdoing, for a throne is established through righteousness." (NIV)

Maxwell says, "Ethical principles are not flexible. A little white lie is still a lie."

The foundation of our leadership needs to include integrity. Without it, "being a person of influence becomes impossible." (Maxwell)

Maxwell also reminds us that our other qualities, like trust, dignity, and respect, are built upon the foundation of integrity. If that foundation is cracked, the structure starts to become unstable. The bigger the crack and the more it expands, the more instability it creates.

Today's reflection question asks, "How seriously do you take your integrity?" Take it seriously. Build your leadership on a foundation of sound ethical principles, including integrity. Ask God to help you and strengthen you so that you can build and maintain a solid foundation with Christ at the center!

God bless you!

Thursday, July 30, 2015

Connect with Your Followers

Mark Schultz sings, "Even when it feels like the light is fading and I've lost my way, still I'm holding onto the One Who's making all things possible! Even when it feels like my heart is breaking, hold on. There is strength, knowing I belong to the One Who's making all things possible! My God is strong and mighty! My God is faithful! My hope is in the Lord, for He is able!" These lyrics remind us of God's presence and power in our lives. We must remember to trust in Him, follow Him, and let Him guide us!

The central Scripture for tonight is Exodus 19:3-6, which says, "Then Moses went up to God, and the Lord called to him from the mountain and said, 'This is what you are to say to the house of Jacob and what you are to tell the people of Israel: "You yourselves have seen what I did to Egypt, and how I carried you on eagles' wings and brought you to Myself. Now if you obey Me fully and keep My covenant, then out of all nations you will be My treasured possession. Although the whole earth is Mine, you will be for Me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation." These are the words you are to speak to the Israelites.'" (NIV)

Maxwell says, "Leaders touch a heart before they ask for a hand." God presented His message to His people, in the following order. He described His love for them. Then He told of the victories He won for them. Then He spoke about their future as He had it planned. (Maxwell) The Father touched the hearts of His children before setting forth His requirements. Similarly, leaders should connect with their followers before asking anything of them. God is the best example we can follow! Psalm 18:30 tells us, "As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in Him." (NIV)

Tonight's reflection question asks, "How do you connect to your people?" I was honestly unable to come up with an answer for this. That question should not be that difficult to answer. Such a situation tells me that I may not have been connecting to my followers very well. For those of us who find ourselves in that predicament, we can ask God to help us better connect with our followers. We must show them that we care about them. We cannot distance ourselves from our teams and expect to be successful. However, with God's guidance, such situations can be corrected. We should look to Him for guidance and follow His direction.

God bless you!

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Building Your Team

MercyMe's song "Greater" says, "There'll be days I lose the battle; grace says it doesn't matter, 'cause the cross already won the war! He's greater! He's greater! I am learning to run freely, understanding just how He sees me, and it makes me love Him more and more! He's greater! He's greater! 'Cause I hear a voice and He calls me redeemed when others say I'll never be enough. And greater is the One living inside of me than he who is living in the world!"

The central Scripture verse for tonight says, "It was just before the Passover Feat. Jesus knew that the time had come for Him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved His own who were in the world, He now showed them the full extent of His love." (John 13:1, NIV)

Maxwell defines three groups of people on a team: starters, bench players, and inner circle members. The first group is comprised of those who directly influence the organization, adding value to it. The second has an indirect impact. And without the third, and most crucial, group, the team would fall apart. The key is to keep the team in transition, making bench players starters and elevating starters to be inner circle members. (Maxwell)

The reflection question for tonight asks, "How well do you treat you[r] 'inner circle members'?"

Heed Maxwell's advice: "If your treatment of key people doesn't match their value, you run the risk of losing them." Recognize your people for their achievements. Invest in your team. Show your people that you care about them!

Let God guide you in choosing your teammates (when the choice is yours) and in building your team. You cannot do everything on your own. You need a good, solid, strong team to help and support you.

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Positive Confrontation

Steven Curtis Chapman's "Something Beautiful" reminds us that God is in control. "And God says, 'I'm gonna turn it into something different; I'm gonna turn it into something good. I'm gonna take all the broken pieces and make something beautiful like only I could.' So put it all in the hands of the Father. Give it up, give it all over to the only One Who can turn it into something beautiful." Remember to trust in God and give Him your problems, relying on Him for help along the way.

The central verse for today is, "Then Nathan said to David, 'You are the man! This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: "I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul."'" (2 Samuel 12:7, NIV)

Nathan needed to confront David and remind him who he was: the Lord's anointed leader. God appointed him to his position. Further, He led David positively and delivered him. God is in control. He knew what he was doing when he chose you to be a leader.

Maxwell notes that, "Confrontation can be a win-win situation, a chance to help and develop your people--if you do it with respect and with the other person's best interests at heart." Furthermore, "Each time you build up your people and identify their problems, you give them an opportunity to grow." (Maxwell)

Confrontation, while not usually easy, is sometimes necessary to correct a difficult situation or negative behavior. However, you should confront with positive intentions and in the right manner.

Maxwell presents ten guidelines for positive confrontation. (Each is a direct quote.)

  1. Confront ASAP.
  2. Address the wrong action, not the person.
  3. Confront only what the person can change.
  4. Give the person the benefit of the doubt.
  5. Be specific.
  6. Avoid sarcasm.
  7. Avoid words like "always" and "never."
  8. If appropriate, tell the person how you feel about what was done wrong.
  9. Give the person a game plan for the problem.
  10. Affirm him or her as a person and a friend.

Maxwell asks, "Is there someone you need to positively confront? How can you do so?"

If you are unsure whether or not you need to confront someone about a particular issue, ask God for guidance, then listen to His voice and follow His direction. Trust that He will lead you down the right path. He knows what He is doing!

God bless you!

Monday, July 27, 2015

Building Credibility

"Hello, my name is Child of the One True King! I've been changed. I've been saved. I have been set free. Amazing Grace is the song I sing. Hello, my name is Child of the One True King!" Matthew West reminds us that our identity is in Christ. No matter what the world may tell you, you are His child, if you have accepted Him as Lord and Savior. Use that to battle any negativity the world may throw at you!

The central verse for tonight is Proverbs 17:2, which says: "A wise servant will rule over a disgraceful son, and will share the inheritance as one of the brothers." (NIV)

"Our influence has less to do with our position or title than it does with the life we live." --Maxwell

If we do not act with honesty and integrity, we will not gain the trust and respect of our followers, even if we have titles. A title doesn't make a leader; it's about what's on the inside. Don't think that your position automatically entitles you to followers. You must earn them. Be a person that others will want to follow.

Put God above all. He is the Ultimate Leader. If you lack wisdom in this, or any, matter, ask Him for guidance and wisdom. James 1:5-6 says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind." (NIV) Trust Him to lead you. Then follow Him so that you can effectively lead your followers.

Maxwell notes that, "The key word is credibility." He mentions five questions that we should ask ourselves concerning our credibility. (Each question below is a direct quote.)

1. Are you the same person no matter who's with you?
2. Do you make decisions based on how they benefit you or others?
3. Are you quick to recognize others for their efforts when you succeed?
4. Do you work harder at your image or your integrity?
5. Have you recognized that credibility is a victory, not a gift?

The reflection question tonight asks: "How are you doing when it comes to credibility?"

This is something that only you can answer. Review the questions above. How do you "score" yourself with each one? If you find areas that need working on, make necessary changes. Ask God to help you. He cares for you and wants the best for you! Let Him lead you and mend you. Follow His guidance, because you can never go wrong with the Lord!

God bless you!

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Have a Plan: Part II

To begin my devotional time this evening, I listened to the song "Mom," by Garth Brooks. Listen to the song, or at least read the lyrics below. (Lyrics found on A-Z Lyrics.)

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A little baby told God, "Hey, I'm kinda scared;
Don't really know if I want to go down there.
From here it looks like a little blue ball,
But that's a great big place and I'm so small"

"Why can't I just stay here with you?
Did I make you mad, don't you want me to?"
God said, "Oh, child, of course I do,
But there's somebody special waiting for you."

So, hush now baby don't you cry,
'Cause there's someone down there waiting
Whose only goal in life
Is makin' sure you're always gonna be alright;
A loving angel, tender, tough and strong.
It's almost time to go and meet your mom.

You'll never have a better friend,
Or a warmer touch to tuck you in.
She'll kiss your bruises, your bumps and scrapes.
And anytime you hurt, her heart's gonna break.

So, hush now baby don't you cry,
'Cause there's someone down there waiting
Whose only goal in life
Is makin' sure you're always gonna be alright;
A loving angel, tender, tough and strong.
It's almost time to go and meet your mom.

Now, when she's talking to you,
Make sure you listen close
'Cause she's gonna teach you everything
You'll ever need to know,
Like how to mind your manners,
To love and laugh and dream.
And she'll put you on the path
That'll bring you back to Me.

So, hush now little baby don't you cry,
'Cause there's someone down there waiting
Whose only goal in life
Is making sure you're always gonna be alright;
A loving angel, tender, tough and strong.
Come on child,
It's time to meet your mom.

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These lyrics remind us that God is in control. Even before we were born, He knew us. He is in control from then on throughout our entire lives. No matter what we go through, it is not too tough for Him to handle. And, best of all, He is with us! And he will strengthen us if we rely on and trust in Him! God, the Ultimate Leader, knows what He is doing.

The central verse for today is Numbers 2:34: "So the Israelites did everything the Lord commanded Moses; that is the way they encamped under their standards, and that is the way they set out, each with his clan and family." (NIV)

Planning is essential. So is making sure that God is included in your plans. Be prepared. You should give careful consideration to plans before you begin a venture. Planning hleps to reduce the margin of error. Above all, make sure to let God lead and guide you. Rely on Him for direction. Be careful, though. When asking for His guidance, you must listen to His voice so that you know when He is calling you to action.

The reflection question asks: "How are you charting your course right now?"

I am preparing for graduate school. Classes start three weeks from tomorrow!

What are your plans? How are you planning for your next venture? Make sure that you do plan so that you have something to go by as you begin. I have said it several times, but it is very important: Make sure that you include God in your plans. He is the Ultimate Leader. Who better to have in control than the Creator of the universe?

God bless you!

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Have a Plan

"On this I'll stand, on this alone: All my hope, all my strength, and all my confidence is in knowing I've received every victory! Through the cross, through the blood, it is finished, it is done! I am saved! I am free! You are every victory!" Newsong's lyrics to "Every Victory" remind us that, "With God we will gain the victory, and He will trample down our enemies." (Psalm 60:12, NIV)

The central verses for tonight are 1 Corinthians 16:5-6, 8-9: "After I go through Macedonia, I will come to you--for I will be going through Macedonia. Perhaps I will stay with you awhile, or even spend the winter, so that you can help me on my journey, wherever I go...But I will stay on at Ephesus until Pentecost, because a great door for effective work has opened to me, and there are many who oppose me." (NIV)

Paul had a plan for his travels. He didn't just wander from place to place aimlessly.

We, as leaders, must also plan. There may be instances that require us to act on a whim, but for the most part, we need to have things carefully sorted out so that everything within our control is taken care of. Not only do we need to do this for ourselves but for our followers as well. We should show them that we know what we're doing. And when we don't, we must remind them to rely on and trust in God, reassuring them that He is guiding their leaders. After all, "With God we will gain the victory, and He will trample down our enemies." (Psalm 60:12, NIV) He is every victory!

The reflection question asks: "What kind of plan do you have?"

Right now, I plan on starting graduate school in August. I hope to join at least one student organization and serve in a leadership capacity. I enjoy being a leader, and rightly so, since that is the gift that the Good Lord has bestowed upon me.

What are your plans? Do you have any? If you don't, you should probably sit down and really think about where you are going and where you want to go. If there is any deviation between the two, make some corrections. What do you need to do to get where you want to go? Make sure to include God in your plans! Proverbs 16:3 says: "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." (NIV)

God bless you!

Friday, July 24, 2015

Dependability

TobyMac sings, "If You wanna steal my show, I'll sit back and watch You go. If You've got something to say, go on and take it away. Need You to steal my show; can't wait to watch You go! So take it away." As President of Phi Theta Kappa, I used to listen to this song and sing to God before many of my meetings. As leaders, we need to make sure that we are led by God, the Ultimate Leader, so that we can effectively lead our followers.

The central verse for tonight is John 1:42: "Jesus looked at him and said, 'You are Simon son of John. You will be called Cephas' (which, when translated, is Peter)." (NIV) Both Cephas and Peter mean rock.

John Maxwell describes four characteristics of dependability: pure motives, responsibility, sound thinking, and consistent contribution. Team members who have hidden agendas and who put themselves before the team do not have pure motives. Furthermore, responsibility shows the leader that the team member wants to be dependable. That must also be paired with sound judgment to show real value within the team. Finally, teammates need to be dependable on a consistent basis; if there are times where they can't be depended upon, you can't really fully count on them at all. (Maxwell)

As leaders, we should possess and display these qualities so that we attract followers who also have those traits. We need to display the same kind of character that we want to see in our followers.

The reflection question tonight asks: "How do you show your dependability?" How do you show your team that you are dependable? Are you dependable? If not, how can you expect your followers to be? In order for them to do or be something, you must first show them that you are willing to do or be the same. It all boils down to a simple phrase: Practice what you preach. It is not always easy, and sometimes we will fail at it, but it is something that we must strive for, especially in leadership matters. Ask God to help you with this area if it is one that you struggle with. Follow through with His guidance and put it into practice!

God bless you!

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Strong Character

We can sing these lyrics to God, the Ultimate Leader, as we praise Him: "You are God alone! From before time began, You were on Your throne; You were God alone. And right now, in the good times and bad, You are on Your throne; You are God alone!" We must remember that He knows what He is doing; He is in control!

The central verse tonight is Job 6:24: "'Teach me, and I will be quiet; show me where I have been wrong.'" (NIV)

Maxwell notes that Job possessed four characteristics that helped him to have strong integrity. He had strong security so as to invite and endure criticism. His conscience was clear with regard to sin. His motives were pure, rather than self-indulgent. And a solid character helped him stay committed to the right thing, regardless of the cost. (Maxwell)

We can learn from Job. We can possess those same traits as we lead and live our lives. And we are not alone in any of it. God is right there with us. He has promised to never leave us and to never forsake us. We can be strong in Him!

The reflection question asks: "How do you fill your own 'hope chest' with integrity?" What characteristics do you possess that build up and help you maintain your integrity? Do you have some of the same characteristics as Job? Others? As long as you know what builds your character, and are not prideful about it, you can utilize those traits to help you in your leadership endeavors. Let God guide you, and trust in and rely on Him along the way!

God bless you!

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Leading through Difficulties

"The voice of Truth tells me a different story. The voice of Truth says, 'Do not be afraid.' The voice of Truth says, 'This is for My glory.' Out of all the voices calling out to me, I will listen and believe the voice of Truth!" These lyrics by Casting Crowns in their song, "Voice of Truth," remind us that no matter what other people tell us, no matter what the world may try to make us believe, we need to listen to the voice of God, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

The central Scripture for tonight comes from Nehemiah 2:17-18, which says, "Then I said to them, 'You see the trouble we are in: Jerusalem lies in ruins, and its gates have been burned with fire. Come, let us rebuild the wall of Jerusalem, and we will no longer be in disgrace.' I also told them about the gracious hand of my God upon me and what the king had said to me. They replied, 'Let us start rebuilding.' So they began this good work." (NIV)

Difficult situations arise. It is in such times that it is crucial for a leader to step forward in the Name and power of the Lord. Nehemiah did just that. God used him to rally the Israelites to action.

When you see a difficult task, if it is in your power and ability to act, you should do so. Help those in need. Let God lead you so that you can be effective in such circumstances. Pray to Him for guidance.

The reflection question tonight asks, "When have you seen strong leadership improve a difficult situation?" Think about that as I tell about such a situation I have encountered.

I was President of our chapter of the Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society. Our school's Student Life department had a points system that clubs utilized to get funding. We were majorly behind in points one summer (the last term of the year to earn points before more funding was given). I called for our advisor to come forward because he needed to, "give the club a talking to." He described the situation, plain and simple. We needed to get our act together and get points. From there, I took over and rallied the other officers and members together, and we came back from a 200 point deficit to win Club of the Year! Not only did I lead them, but I was in on the actual work as well. We did community service and tutoring every weekday that we could.

Let God lead you and you can overcome any difficult situation.

God bless you!

Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Be Prepared!

"I'll be by your side wherever you fall; in the dead of night whenever you call. And please don't fight these hands that are holding you. My hands are holding you." "I, I love you! I want you to know that I, yeah I love you! I'll never let you go!" These lyrics from Tenth Avenue North's song "By Your Side" remind us that God is with us. I really like this song because it is written in the perspective of God talking to us. Many songs are written as us singing to God. This one reminds us that He is with us and talks to us, too.

The central verse for tonight is Luke 12:47: "'That servant who knows his master's will and does not get ready or does not do what his master wants will be beaten with many blows.'" (NIV) We must be prepared for our various tasks and endeavors or suffer the consequences.

To be an effective leader, you must be properly prepared. You wouldn't go to work without first getting ready, ensuring that you have what you need, and then heading out, right? The same applies to leadership endeavors. Be prepared.

Maxwell presents four areas to check as we begin a venture: assessment, alignment, attitude, and action. Ask the right questions to be sure that you and your team are ready. He says, "Good alignment makes success possible," meaning that preparations must be lined up properly. A good, positive attitude about your situation, team, and yourself is essential. All of that leads up to actually taking action when the right time comes. (Maxwell)

Above all, remember to keep God in your plans! He is essential to healthy growth and success!

The reflection question tonight asks, "How prepared are you for your next endeavor?" Use Maxwell's four A's mentioned above to help ensure that you are properly prepared. I am getting ready for graduate school. I have started preparations, including taking the entrance exam, completing my application, and following up with necessary paperwork to various departments. I have continued preparations, and I am still in the process of getting ready. Classes start in August, and I will probably be preparing right up until the day they start, and even further.

Whatever your plans are, commit them to the Lord! "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." (Proverbs 16:3, NIV) God, the Ultimate Leader, is in control! Nothing you do should be done without Him. Remember that!

God bless you!

Monday, July 20, 2015

Position Isn't Leadership

I listened to "Thrive," by Casting Crowns, this evening. "Living water, flowing through, God we thirst for more of You. Fill our hearts and flood our souls with one desire: Just to know You and to make You known we lift Your Name on high. Shine like the sun. Make darkness run and hide. We know we were made for so much more than ordinary lives. It's time for us to more than just survive. We were made to thrive!...Joy unspeakable; faith unsinkable; love unstoppable; anything is possible!"

The central Scripture for today comes from 1 Chronicles 11:1-2: "All Israel came together to David at Hebron and said, 'We are your own flesh and blood. In the past, even while Saul was king, you were the one who led Israel on their military campaigns. And the Lord your God said to you, "You will shepherd My people Israel, and you will become their ruler."'" (NIV) Maxwell notes, "Like it or not, position doesn't make a person a leader." David was a leader even when Saul was king.

David have five specific tools that he used, enabling him to be a good leader: unity, identification, credibility, anointing, and partnership. God's anointing was upon him, which helped him identify with his followers, establish his credibility, unite the people, and partner with fellow leaders. (Maxwell)

If we put our faith and trust in God and let Him have control, He can use us too! We must rely on Him so that we can be the best leaders we can be!

All five of those elements David used boil down to one thing: relationships. As leaders, we need to establish and build good relationships, beginning with God and with Him at the center! With God as the point of focus, relationships can grow and thrive!

The reflection question asks, "How do you utilize the five aspects of David's leadership to gain influence?"

Build relationships! Establish credibility with your followers. Show them that you care. If they don't see that, all of your efforts are worthless. You must show your followers that you are making an investment in them. Only when they see that you truly care will they continue on with you in truth. Make sure to keep God at the center!

God bless you!

Sunday, July 19, 2015

Driving by Successes

I am feeling really good right now! And I was feeling pretty good when I began my devotional time, so I started off with an upbeat song: "Greater," by MercyMe.

"There'll be days I lose the battle; grace says that it doesn't matter, 'cause the cross already won the war! He's greater! He's greater! I am learning to run freely, understanding just how He sees me, and it makes me love Him more and more! He's greater! He's greater! 'Cause I hear a voice and He calls me redeemed when others say I'll never be enough. And greater is the One living inside of me than he who is living in the world!"

The central verse for tonight is Joshua 4:6-7: "'In the future, when your children ask you, "What do these stones mean?" tell them that the flow of the Jordan was cut off before the ark of the covenant of the Lord. When it crossed the Jordan, the waters of the Jordan were cut off. These stones are to be a memorial to the people of Israel forever.'" (NIV)

Using Joshua as an example, Maxwell notes that, "Effective leaders look for ways to use the successes of today to empower their people for the challenges of tomorrow." Joshua did that, following God's guidance, as he reminded the Israelites of the successes God brought about for them.

We need to provide solid evidence of what our teams have done successfully so as to help drive our followers forward in hope. This is especially helpful in times of failure and complacency. We must enable our teams to see and remember what they are capable of so that they move forward with courage and confidence rather than in fear and doubt. We should remind them that, "'With God all things are possible.'" (Matthew 19:26, NIV) God is the Ultimate Leader! "Good leaders always provide 'handles' to enable their people to grab hold of the vision," Maxwell says.

The reflection question for tonight asks: "How do you maintain the balance between reminders of both past victories and future vision?" I honestly could not think of anything. That happens sometimes. In such moments, we should ask God to show us how to do things. I asked God to help me with that and to show me ways to show that. Even a simple prayer such as that can have great impact!

God bless you!

Saturday, July 18, 2015

Strengths and Weaknesses

"I'm not about to give up because I heard You say there's gonna be brighter days. There's gonna be brighter days. I won't stop; I'll keep my head up. No, I'm not here to stay. There's gonna be brighter days. There's gonna be brighter days. I just might bend, but I won't break, as long as I can see Your face. When life won't play along and right keeps going wrong and I can't seem to find my way, I know where I am found, so I won't let it drag me down. Oh, I'll keep dancing anyway. I'm gonna move, move! I'm gonna move, move!" MercyMe sings these words in their song "Move." Remember: God is in control. And if He brings you to it, He'll bring you through it! Keep your faith and trust in Him! Don't give up!

The central verse for today is 1 Samuel 17:33, which says, "Saul replied, 'You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a boy, and he has been a fighting man from his youth.'" (NIV) Saul focused too much on David's weaknesses, rather than praising his strengths.

As leaders, we must learn to properly work with and address strengths and weaknesses in ourselves and in others. Focusing too much on weaknesses is demoralizing. As relationships form, focus more on enhancing strengths than on addressing weaknesses.

Only after you have formed a firm bond with someone should you begin working on weak areas. Even then, work on only one point at a time, and tread with caution. (Maxwell)

When working with someone in such a manner, I recommend treating it as a mentor-mentee relationship. Guide the individual in a way that he or she can clearly see that you are trying to help him or her. Also, use the opportunity to strengthen rapport with each other. When in doubt, ask God for guidance and follow His direction.

The reflection question asks, "Do you tend to focus on strengths or weaknesses more?" Honestly, I probably see weaknesses before strengths. However, God can help with that. Pray something like this if you are in the same position: "Father, please help me to follow Maxwell's guidance and focus on strengths first, then, carefully, work on weak areas. In Jesus' Name I pray. Amen!"

God bless you!

Friday, July 17, 2015

Intuition from God

Phil Wickham sings, "Have you heard of the One Who can calm the raging sea, give sight ot the blind, pull the lame up to their feet? With a love so strong, He'll never let you go. No, you're not alone. You will be safe in His arms! You will be safe in His arms! 'Cause the hands that hold the world are holding your heart. This is the promise He made: He will be with you always! When everything is falling apart, you will be safe in His arms!" ("Safe") Remember, no matter what you are going through, God is right there with you. I saw this quote online: "Safe in His hands. Secure in His love. When life gets too hard, just look up above." His Word even says, "The Lord will keep you from all harm--He will watch over your life." (NIV)

The central verse for this evening is Nehemiah 2:6, which says, "Then the king, with the queen sitting beside him, asked me, 'How long will your journey take, and when will you get back?' It pleased the king to send me; so I set a time." (NIV)

I'm sure you've heard the term, "mother's intuition." Leaders have intuition, too. According to Maxwell, they have an inherent sense to know when to act. He uses Nehemiah as an example. He knew the details of what he needed to do, and no doubt that intuition was from God.

If you hear God's voice calling you to do something, do it! Act in faith! He knows what He's doing! Don't worry, you'll be safe in His arms!

The reflection question today asks, "How can you incorporate what your intuition is telling you into your life and goals?" Really the only thing I can say on this is that we need to learn when to let go and let God. But we also need to know when He is calling us to action. Even if the situation seems gloomy, don't fear. "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10, NIV) Trust in Him and follow His direction!

God bless you!

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Parting Company

This evening, I listened to, "Not for a Moment," by Meredith Andrews, as I began my devotional time.

"Not for a moment did You forsake me. After all, You are constant. After all, You are only good. After all, You are sovereign. Not for a moment will You forsake me...And every step, every breath, You are there; every fear, every cry, every prayer; in my hurt, at my worst; when my world falls down, not for a moment will You forsake me. Even in the dark, even when it's hard, You will never leave me." Remember Hebrews 13:5b, "because God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.'" (NIV)

The central Scripture for today comes from John 6:60, 66: "On hearing it, many of His disciples said, 'This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it?'...From this time many of His disciples turned back and no longer followed Him." (NIV)

Those individuals chose not to follow Jesus. However, there may be times where you have to decide whether or not to take a follower along with you.

As leaders, we must be able to discern whether or not it is a good idea to bring someone with us on our journey. We need to ask ourselves these three questions and follow accordingly: Does the person want to go? Is this person able to go? Can he or she make the trip without me?

You may want to take certain people onto your team, but, in the long run, will it benefit all parties involved? Some people may need to go their own directions rather than yours.

The reflection question asks: "What questions have you neglected to ask?" To find necessary information and move in the right direction, we must ask questions, some of which may be hard to answer. However, they are necessary if we are to move forward in a positive direction. Ask for God's guidance in any such matter and follow His direction. He will not misguide you!

God bless you!

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Reading Before Leading

Brandon Heath sings, "There is hope for me yet because God won't forget all the plans He's made for me. I have to wait and see. He's not finished with me yet." ("Wait and See") We have to remember that God is in control and to trust in His timing. Patience is sometimes, if not oftentimes, hard, but we must learn to possess it.

The central verse this evening is Ezra 4:3, which says: "But Zerubbabel, Jeshua, and the rest of the heads of the families of Israel answered, 'You have no part with us in building a temple to our God. We alone will build it for the Lord, the God of Israel, as King Cyrus, the king of Persia, commanded us.'" (NIV) Zerubbabel had the ability to read those who came to him and could tell that they had false appearances.

Maxwell says, "Leaders must read the people, then lead the people." As leaders, we must be able to read situations and make wise decisions based on our discernment. Take note of the order. We must think and then act, not act then think. According to Maxwell, "Discernment always precedes decision. Analysis always precedes action." We should not act hastily, especially in critical situations.

We were appointed leaders for a reason. Our followers look to us for the right guidance. We have to be trained well enough and disciplined enough to make the right decisions in times of need. And we can do that, if we let God lead us!

The reflection question this evening asks: "How do you read people before making decisions?" It may be smart to ask questions before making a decision. That can help you get more information about a situation before taking any action. Let God lead you so that you can effectively and efficiently lead your followers!

God bless you!

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Impossible? Not with God!

"We can rise above the typical and be anything but usual. We know, we know, we know that there's no such thing as impossible! And nothing is unreachable when we trust the God of miracles. We know, we know, we know that there's no such thing as impossible!" --Building 429, "Impossible"
Nothing is impossible with God!

The central Scripture for tonight comes from Luke 9:1-2, which says: "When Jesus had called the Twelve together, He gave them power and authority to drive out all demons and to cure diseases, and He sent them out to preach the kingdom of God and to heal the sick." (NIV) God gave power to His people. This is key. Keep it in mind.

Leaders must be able to effectively coordinate and organize their teams. Jesus did that with His disciples. He taught them as a group, then sent them out. Some stayed together in small groups, some worked solo at times. However it happened, Jesus led them effectively. Maxwell says, "Shared experiences and the give-and-take of communication are the greatest ways to promote team growth." Follow Christ's example of leadership: Communicate with your followers (He definitely did that). Also, share experiences with your followers. That means being involved.

Maxwell suggests using multiple methods to ensure team growth and cooperation: regular meetings with everyone; a smaller, more personal meeting with a group working on a specific project; and sending team members to professional development seminars.

Whatever methods you utilize, make sure that your team members are working cohesively and getting things done right. Remember, you are the leader for a reason, and the success or failure of projects under your supervision ultimately falls on your shoulders.

In everything, put God first and look to Him for guidance to lead your team effectively. We serve the God the impossible! Nothing is impossible with God! "'For nothing is impossible with God.'" (Luke 1:37, NIV)

Think about that specific verse for a moment. Not only is everything possible with God (see Matthew 19:26), but nothing is impossible with God. If you are like I was, you don't really see the difference. I didn't until my pastor, Jon Robertson, pointed out what he saw in it. When you put your faith in God and trust wholly in Him, it is impossible for nothing to happen! God will work and results will come! So, not only is everything possible with God, but nothing is impossible with Him!

The reflection question this evening asks: "How do you ensure the growth of your people?" I suggest this: Be involved! Don't just stand off in the distance and give orders. Show your team that you care by being involved in their work. This should help you gain the trust of your team and more cooperation when you need something done.

I leave you with lyrics from the band Sidewalk Prophets. "Be strong in the Lord and never give up hope! You're gonna do great things; I already know! God's got His hand on you so don't live life in fear. Forgive and forget, but don't forget why you're here. Take your time and pray. These are the words I would say! From simple life to another, I will say: Come find peace in the Father!" ("The Words I Would Say")

Monday, July 13, 2015

Leadership Voices

The song "Shoulders," by for KING & COUNTRY, holds a great truth that we should remember: God is holding us. He knows what is going on and, above all, He is in control! "My help comes from You. You're right here, pulling me through. You carry my weakness, my sickness, my brokenness all on Your shoulders, Your shoulders. My help comes from You. You are my rest, my rescue. I don't have to see to believe that You're lifting me up on Your shoulders, Your shoulders."

The verse for this evening is Proverbs 30:5, which says: "'Every word of God is flawless; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him.'" (NIV) His Word backs up what for KING & COUNTRY sing: He is there for us! We can run to Him for help, shelter, and peace.

Having a worthwhile vision is essential to being a good leader. You must have vision to see where you are going. John Maxwell points out four voices that you should listen to to find your vision:

  • The Inner Voice
  • The Unhappy Voice
  • The Successful Voice
  • The Higher Voice
Each of these can help you in your leadership by enabling you to find your vision and true purpose therein.

Your inner voice comes from deep within and is anchored in your beliefs. The unhappy voice is what helps you push past failures and on toward great ideas. The successful voice comes from a mentor or advisor who can help you hone your vision. Most importantly, you need to listen to the Higher Voice, that of God, the One who really knows what you are capable of. (Maxwell)

Listening to all of these can help you to form a strong vision that you can use to direct your steps in leadership.

The reflection for this evening asks: "What voice do you listen to the most? The least?"

We should listen to the Higher Voice above all, since it is that of God, who cares for you, carrying you on His shoulders and giving you rest. However, for me, I probably tend to listen more to the inner voice. Even so, I think that it is guided by the Higher Voice at times. On the other side, I believe I listen to the unhappy voice the least.

Answer the question for yourself. Find a proper balance and let them guide your vision!

God bless you!

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Acknowledge God's Role

When you feel down and need some encouragement, listen to the song "Redeemed," by Big Daddy Weave. He sings, "Then You look at this prisoner and say to me, 'Son, stop fighting a fight that's already been won!' I am redeemed! You set me free! So I'll shake off these heavy chains and wipe away every stain. Now I'm not who I used to be. I am redeemed!" Remember: God loves you and will never leave you, nor will He forsake you!

The central verses for tonight are Psalm 8:3-5, 9: "When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, the moon and the stars, which You have set in place, what is man that You are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him? You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor. You made him ruler over the works of Your hands; You put everything under his feet...O Lord, our Lord, how majestic is Your Name in all the earth!" (NIV)

Those of us whom God has called to leadership must not become arrogant. We have to remember that, ultimately, God is in control. "'The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the Name of the Lord be praised.'" (Job 1:21b, NIV)

Looking at Psalm 8, Maxwell notes three ways that David maintained the right attitude and outlook:

  1. He saw his own weakness and humanity.
  2. He saw his God-given position and privileges.
  3. He saw a balance by giving God all the glory.
We can use these points and model our own leadership after that of David.

In fact, the reflection question for tonight asks, "How do you acknowledge God's role in your work?"

I give thanks to Him when I succeed. I also look to Him for guidance. I have to remember to be still and know that He is God, as He says to do in Psalm 16:10. When doing so, I remind myself that He is in control. He knows what He is doing. After all, He is God! You can also pray the Scripture in this manner. The Lord will listen!

God bless you!

Saturday, July 11, 2015

Providing the Vision

"Living water, flowing through, God, we thirst for more of You. Fill our hearts and flood our souls with one desire: Just to know You and to make You known, we lift Your Name on high. Shine like the sun. Make darkness run and hide. We know we were made for so much more than ordinary lives. It's time for us to more than just survive. We were made to thrive!" These lyrics from Casting Crowns' "Thrive" remind us to rely on God and let Him live through us so that we can reach our greatest potential: "Joy unspeakable; faith unsinkable; love unstoppable; anything is possible!"

The central Scripture for tonight is 2 Samuel 5:1-3, 6a: "All the tribes of Israel came to David at Hebron and said, 'We are your own flesh and blood. In the past, while Saul was king over us, you were the one who led Israel on their military campaigns. And the Lord said to you, "You will shepherd My people Israel, and you will become their ruler."' When all the elders of Israel had come to King David at Hebron, the king made a compact with them at Hebron before the Lord, and they anointed David king over Israel...The king and his men marched to Jerusalem to attack the Jebusites, who lived there." (NIV)

Using David as an example, John Maxwell points out five things that vision does. Vision:

  1. Unites
  2. Provides a center for leadership
  3. Dominates inner conversation
  4. Inspires greatness
  5. Attracts others to the leader
A vision is one of the most important things you can provide for, help develop with, and communicate to your followers. Vision is a strong driving force for the organization, provided the leader uses it to help direct the team. Without vision, how do you know where you're going?

The reflection question for tonight asks, "How do you see your vision energizing others?" It takes energy to perform work. How are you energizing your followers to help achieve your vision? Are you doing that? If not, ask God to help you, then follow through with guidance from the Ultimate Leader!

God bless you!

Friday, July 10, 2015

Never Stop Improving

"My help comes from You. You're right here, pulling me through. You carry my weakness, my sickness, my brokenness all on Your shoulders, Your shoulders. My help comes from You. You are my rest, my rescue. I don't have to see to believe that You're lifting me up on Your shoulders, Your shoulders." The band for KING & COUNTRY sings these words in their song, "Shoulders." They remind us that God is always with us, carrying us when we can't walk on our own. The last line of the popular poem "Footprints" tells us, "When you see only one set of footprints in the sand, it was then that I carried you."

The central Scripture for tonight is 1 Corinthians 9:25a, which says: "Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training." (NIV)

As leaders, we should never stop striving to better ourselves, to strengthen and refine our skills. Even more important, we should never stop growing in our relationship with God, the Ultimate Leader.

Self-improvement can take many forms. Taking time alone with God can help you grow spiritually. Taking various courses for professional development can help you grow professionally. Even reading and studying independently can help you improve yourself. If you couldn't tell already, I reference John Maxwell a lot. I highly recommend his books for leadership development.

Maxwell presents an ongoing cycle of three processes that people should use to constantly improve themselves. The processes are: Preparation, Contemplation, and Application. We should, "be intentional about learning something every day." Then, we must remember take alone time and use it for self-improvement. From there, we must apply what we have learned. Then, start over. (Maxwell)

The reflection question tonight asks, "How do you remain in constant pursuit of self-improvement?"

I like to read, so that is one method I use. I also worship God. By now I'm sure you have noticed that I start each post with lyrics from a Christian song. I begin my devotional time each night with a worship song or some other Christian song because my pastor recommended doing that when we have our quiet time or devotional time. It definitely enhances the experience and helps me to gather my thoughts and get focused. And what better thing to focus on than worshiping God!

Remember to keep God at the center. Never stop improving yourself and growing in your relationships, especially your relationship with the Lord. Further, remember to keep your skills up-to-date and even gain some new skills along the way to make yourself more marketable to potential employers, or even your current employer. Regardless of where you are or what you do, keep moving forward and improving yourself, with God at the forefront.

God bless you!

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Wise Leaders Know the Power of Words

"And God says, 'I'm gonna turn it into something different; I'm gonna turn it into something good. I'm gonna take all the broken pieces and make something beautiful like only I could.' So put it all in the hands of the Father. Give it up, give it all over to the only One Who can turn it into something beautiful!" Steven Curtis Chapman sings these lyrics in his song, "Something Beautiful," reminding us that God is in control and can use us even in our low moments.

The central Scripture for tonight is:

"Blessings crown the head of the righteous, but violence overwhelms the mouth of the wicked...
The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life, but violence overwhelms the mouth of the wicked...
Wisdom is found on the lips of the discerning, but a rod is for the back of him who lacks judgment.
Wise men store up knowledge, but the mouth of a fool invites ruin...
When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise...
The lips of the righteous nourish many, but fools die for lack of judgment."
--Proverbs 10:6, 11, 13-14, 19, 21 (NIV)

It is important for people to choose their words carefully. The tongue is very powerful. "The tongue has the power of life and death," says Proverbs 18:21 (NIV).

It is even more important for leaders to learn how to hold their tongues when necessary and to know when to be quiet. Also, we need to know when we should speak.

Maxwell lists five things that leaders can accomplish when they learn the power their words hold:

  • "They proclaim justice and are blessed." (See verse 6.)
  • "They speak hope for the future, becoming a fountain of life to others." (See verse 11.)
  • "They speak forth wisdom and save others from ruin." (See verses 13 and 14.)
  • "They know when silence is more powerful than words." (See verse 19.)
  • "Their words feed and nourish many others." (See verse 21.)
He also says, "Leaders who use words skillfully increase their influence." So not only do leaders help others when they use their words carefully, but they also benefit themselves. Both parties win. 

The reflection question asks: "What kind of influence are your words having on others?" Think seriously on this question. The answer may differ from time to time. However, when we fail, we should seek forgiveness, ask God to lead us back to the right road, and follow His guidance. His words are more important than ours. We should speak His Word in our lives, because His Word is mighty to save!

God bless you!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

The Game Plan vs. The Scoreboard

"The mountains shake before You; the demons run and flee, at the mention of the Name King of Majesty. There is no power in hell nor any who can stand before the power and the presence of the great I AM!" These words remind us that God is above all. It should also help us to keep in mind that He is in control.

The central verse this evening says, "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, Who makes things grow." (1 Corinthians 3:6-7, NIV) I believe that Paul is saying that God uses His people to do various things, but it is Him Who is ultimately in control of everything.

For the most part, no matter what you do, there is some sort of score, something that is used to measure success or failure. In sports, there is a game plan, but there is also the scoreboard. "You see, the game plan tells you what you want to happen. But the scoreboard tells what is happening." (Maxwell)

These can also be taken symbolically and applied to things that are not sports. The game plan represents your plan of action. Such plans are detailed, possibly with step-by-step instructions. In contrast, the scoreboard represents reality, how things have actually played out. Chances are, the two measurements differ, whether a little or a lot.

Maxwell asks, "What do you focus on more: the game plan or the scoreboard?"

I would say that I probably focus more on the game plan. However, like many things, it depends on the situation at hand.

I don't think that it is more important to focus on one more than the other. Each has its place. As leaders, we must definitely have things planned out. However, we should keep in mind that there will probably be things that come up, causing us to change those plans. We should keep an eye on what is actually happening (the scoreboard) so that we know where we are in the present and how we need to adjust our paths to make it to the desired destination. Above all, though, we must keep our focus on God, Who will be with us along the way, no matter what, because He will never leave us nor forsake us! He has promised us that! See Deuteronomy 31:6 for proof!

God bless you!

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Lead by Example

Tonight's introductory song was, "Redeemed," by Big Daddy Weave.

"Then You look at this prisoner and say to me, 'Son, stop fighting a fight that's already been won!' I am redeemed! You set me free! So I'll shake off these heavy chains and wipe away every stain. I'm not who I used to be. I am redeemed!"

"But when I hear You whisper, 'Child, lift up your head,' I remember, O God, You're not done with me yet!"

"I don't have to be the old man inside of me, 'cause his day is long dead and gone, because I've got a new name, a new life; I'm not the same; and a hope that will carry me home. I am redeemed!"

Remember, no matter what you are going through, if you are saved, you belong to God! You are redeemed! He will never leave you nor forsake you!

The beginning verse for tonight, Exodus 33:8, says, "And whenever Moses went out to the tent, all the people rose and stood at the entrances to their tents, watching Moses until he entered the tent." (NIV)

Maxwell says: "Modeling provides the basis of all true leadership." Moses lead the Israelites by being a model for them to follow. Yes, there were times that he failed; he was human. However, God was still able to use him, even in his down moments.

"The number one management principle in the world is this: people do what people see," according to Maxwell. You cannot expect your followers to do something that you yourself are not willing to do. You must lead by example.

To be an effective, Godly leader, you must remember to put God first and to make time for Him. Spend time alone with Him. Worship, pray, listen, read His Word. As you strengthen your relationship with the Ultimate Leader and grow closer to Him, your leadership will grow stronger and your life as a whole will be better. Remember to keep your focus on Him!

Maxwell presents five ways to grow your relationship with the Lord:

1. Separate yourself regularly.
"But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed." (Luke 5:16, NIV)

2. Seek God with all your heart.
"You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart." (Jeremiah 29:13, NIV)

3. Risk being watched and scrutinized.
"But instead, one brother goes to law against another--and this in front of unbelievers!" (1 Corinthians 6:6, NIV) Act in Godly manners, because others are watching you.

4. Learn to listen and obey God's voice.
"I will listen to what God the Lord will say; He promises peace to His people, His saints--but let them not return to folly." (Psalm 85:8, NIV)

5. Enter covenant partnership with God.
"'My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me. I give them eternal life, adn they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of My hand. My Father, Who has given them to Me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of My Father's hand.'" (John 10:27-29, NIV)

We can use Moses as an example to follow, as he did those things.

The reflection question for tonight asks, "From the five points above, how can youl ead by example in your own life?"

I thought about that, and called this to mind: Follow God so closely that others see Him through me and have to go through Him to get to me. God needs to be number one. When you have that priority straight, other things will fall into place. "Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6, NIV)

God bless you!

Monday, July 6, 2015

Connecting is Crucial

I began tonight's devotional time with Meredith Andrews' "Not for a Moment." She sings: "After all, You are constant. After all, You are only good. After all, You are sovereign. Not for a moment, will You forsake me!" Scripture backs up these lyrics. "'Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.'" (Deuteronomy 31:6, NIV, emphasis added)

The central Scripture for tonight comes from Luke 5:4, 10-11: "When He had finished speaking, He said to Simon, 'Put out into deep water, and let down the nets for a catch.'...Then Jesus said to Simon, 'Don't be afraid; from now on you will catch men.' So they pulled their boats up on shore, left everything and followed Him." (NIV)

Jesus made a connection with His disciples. Connection is critical. To be an effective leader, you have to connect with your followers. Find common ground. Establish relationships. Make sure they know that you care about them and want them to succeed.

Maxwell notes that you must first figure out where your followers are. Next, you have to go toward them, so as to make contact. Then you can connect with them.

Jesus put these into practice as He called His disciples. He still does so today as He calls us. He knows where we are. Psalm 139 reflects this. (The psalm below is in the NIV translation.)

"O Lord, You have searched me and You know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down; You are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue You know it completely, O Lord.

You hem me in--behind and before; You have laid Your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.
Where can I go from Your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast.

If I say, 'Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,'
even the darkness will not be dark to You; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you.

For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
Your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be.

How precious to me are Your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them!
Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand. When I awake, I am still with You.
If only you would slay the wicked, O God! Away from me, you bloodthirsty men!
They speak of You with evil intent; Your adversaries misuse Your Name.
Do I not hate those who hate You, O Lord, and abhor those who rise up against You?
I have nothing but hatred for them; I count them my enemies.

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting."

Not only does He know where we are, He moves toward us. Even further, He actually connects with us! The Parable of the Prodigal Son gives us information about that.

"Jesus continued: 'There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, "Father, give me my share of the estate." So he divided his property between them. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything. When he came to his senses, he said, "How many of my father's hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men." So he got up and went ot his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him." (Luke 15:11-20, NIV)

The reflection question tonight asks, "How do you connect with others?" Figure out a way that works well for you and follow it. Ask God to guide you and help you to connect with others. Bear in mind that you cannot effectively connect (in a Godly manner) unless you are first connected with the Lord. Take one step toward Him, and He will run to you!

God bless you!

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Leading by David's Example

Tonight, I began my devotional time with the song, "Worn," by Tenth Avenue North. My favorite Christian band gives us the following lyrics:

"And I know that You can give me rest, so I cry out with all that I have left: "Let me see redemption win! Let me know the struggle ends, that You can mend a heart that's frail and torn. I wanna know a song can rise from the ashes of a broken life and all that's dead inside can be reborn, 'cause I'm worn." God can give us strength when we are weak. "But He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." (2 Corinthians 12:9, NIV)

The central Scripture reference tonight is 1 Samuel 26:9, which says, "But David said to Abishai, 'Don't destroy him! Who can lay a hand on the Lord's anointed and be guiltless?'" (NIV)

In order to be a good leader, you must first be a good follower. Maxwell contrasts Saul and David to illustrate this principle. Saul:

  • Was self-conscious from the beginning
  • Presumed the priestly office
  • Disobeyed God in the little things
  • Lost integrity by covering his sin
  • Failed to submit to God-given authority
  • Was preoccupied with his own fame
In contrast, David:
  • Displayed God-confidence from the beginning
  • Didn't assume any right or privilege
  • Obeyed God in the little things
  • Maintained integrity by respecting Saul
  • Consistently submitted to authority
  • Desired to increase God's reputation
There are clear differences in the descriptions that Maxwell notes. As leaders appointed by God, we should model our behavior after David's leadership, not Saul's.

The reflection question tonight asks: "How can you follow David's example of leadership?"

I make the suggestion to ask God for guidance a lot, but that's because it is important to do so. We need to get our advice and guidance from God, His Word, and other trusted, Godly people. There is no difference in this case. You can ask God for His guidance on how to use David as a leadership example to model, and then follow that guidance. God will not lead you astray!

God bless you!

Friday, July 3, 2015

The Importance of Selflessness

I began my devotional time tonight with the song, "The Words I Would Say," by Sidewalk Prophets, because it really helped me last night. I felt like God spoke to me through the song and helped me to give up my concerns and worries to Him.

"Be strong in the Lord and never give up hope. You're gonna do great things, I already know. God's got His hand on you so don't live life in fear. Forgive and forget, but don't forget why you're here. Take your time and pray. These are the words I would say...From one simple life to another, I will say: Come find peace in the Father!"

These lyrics point us to God and reminds us that He is always with us!

The central verse for tonight is Ephesians 5:2, which says: "And live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God." (NIV)

As leaders, we should be selfless, helping others for their benefit. Maxwell presents four ways to do so:

1. Be generous.
2. Avoid internal politics.
3. Display loyalty.
4. Value interdependence more than independence.

We should give of ourselves for others for their well-being as well as that of the team. Praise of the team as a whole should be more important than letting self-pride set in. Leaders should always be loyal so as to foster unity, leading to team success. (Maxwell) Rather than letting selfishness take root, a leader should focus on teamwork, forming a web of interdependence among team members.

The reflection question tonight asks: "How can you cultivate an attitude of selflessness in your own team?" As the leader, you can conduct team-building exercises and use other activities to create a spirit of teamwork among members of the group. Ask God to lead you so that you can effectively lead your team!

God bless you!

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Give Up to Move Forward

"Just believe what He said. He said, 'I won't give you more, more than you can take; and I might let you bend, but I won't let you break. And ohhhh, I'll never ever let you go!' Don't you forget what He said!" These lyrics from Group 1 Crew's song, "He Said," remind us to rely on God's promises, which can be found in His Word. He is always with us and promises us protection, peace, and to never leave us!

The central verse for this evening comes from Numbers 6:21, which says: "'This is the law of the Nazirite who vows his offering to the Lord in accordance with his separation, in addition to whatever else he can afford. He must fulfill the vow he has made, according to the law of the Nazirite.'" (NIV)

In Old Testament times, a Nazirite would make a vow in an effort to get closer to God. He would give up certain things or practices in order to draw nearer to God through his sacrifices.

The application behind these practices can help leaders today. Fasting from certain things can help you strengthen your relationship with God through self control, integrity, and sacrifice of self-image. Maxwell mentions these three areas with reference to Numbers 6:21. Leaders can strengthen their disciplines by showing self-control; increase integrity by staying away from potentially harmful things; and deny themselves by refusing materialistic, worldly "trends." Not only can these principles help you as a leader, but they can help you in your relationship with God, which will help your life all around!

The reflection question for tonight asks, "How can you apply the principle behind the Nazirite in your own life?" I have given some broad examples. However, if you wish to follow this example, you should find specific things or areas in your life that you can sacrifice in order to better yourself and strengthen your relationship with God. There may even be things that you need to give up. Ask God to help you with those areas. Stay strong in Him and rely on Him. Isaiah 41:10 says: "Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Rely on His help and guidance!

God bless you!

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

God's Leadership

Unspoken's song, "Start A Fire," is what I began my devotional time with tonight.

"Start a fire in my soul, fan the flame, and make it whole, so there's no doubt or denying. Let it burn so brightly that everyone around can see that it's You, that it's You that we need! Start a fire in me!...We carry the news that You have come to save! Only You can save!...Start a fire in me!" God gave us His Spirit so that He is with us always. Since He is with us, He will guide us and help us to share His Word!

The beginning Scripture that Maxwell presents is Psalm 23:1-3: "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters, He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for His Name's sake." (NIV) In Psalm 23, David paints a very vivid picture of how God leads us!

In the Bible, the term "shepherd" denotes a leader. The shepherd's rod stands for correction and his staff represents direction. (Maxwell)

John Maxwell points out ten functions that Jesus, our Shepherd, performs. I have also provided Scripture, along with references, to back up the claims. He:

Confidently leads (Psalm 23:3)
"He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for His Name's sake." (NIV)

Provides necessities (Matthew 6:31-33)
"'So do not worry, saying, "What shall we eat?" or "What shall we drink?" or "What shall we wear?" For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.'" (NIV)

Feeds and anoints (Psalm 23:5)
"You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows." (NIV)

Guides and directs (Psalm 31:3)
"Since You are my rock and my fortress, for the sake of Your Name lead and guide me." (NIV)

Loves unconditionally (Romans 8:37-39)
"No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him Who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." (NIV)

Renews and restores (Psalm 23:3)
"He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for His Name's sake." (NIV)

Gives rest (Matthew 11:28)
"'Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (NIV)

Corrects and comforts (Proverbs 3:11-12, Philippians 4:6-7)
"My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline and do not resent His rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, as a father the son he delights in." (NIV)
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guiard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (NIV)

Protects from harm (Psalm 121:7-8)
"The Lord will keep you from all harm--He will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore." (NIV)

Furnishes permanent shelter (John 14:2-3)
"'In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a  place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.'"

As leaders, we can take on some of these functions. God can give us the ability to pass along confidence, provision, guidance, renwal, comfort, correction, and, above all, love. We can pass these on to others and show them Christ through us!

The reflection question tonight asks, "In what ways do you lead as a shepherd?" What areas listed above do you utilize in your leadership? We should use Christ, the Ultimate Leader, as our model in our leadership! He is perfect, so there is no way that we can go wrong following His example! Ask God to help you lead like Him. Then, follow His direction!

God bless you!