Dependability

TobyMac sings, "If You wanna steal my show, I'll sit back and watch You go. If You've got something to say, go on and take it away. Need You to steal my show; can't wait to watch You go! So take it away." As President of Phi Theta Kappa, I used to listen to this song and sing to God before many of my meetings. As leaders, we need to make sure that we are led by God, the Ultimate Leader, so that we can effectively lead our followers.

The central verse for tonight is John 1:42: "Jesus looked at him and said, 'You are Simon son of John. You will be called Cephas' (which, when translated, is Peter)." (NIV) Both Cephas and Peter mean rock.

John Maxwell describes four characteristics of dependability: pure motives, responsibility, sound thinking, and consistent contribution. Team members who have hidden agendas and who put themselves before the team do not have pure motives. Furthermore, responsibility shows the leader that the team member wants to be dependable. That must also be paired with sound judgment to show real value within the team. Finally, teammates need to be dependable on a consistent basis; if there are times where they can't be depended upon, you can't really fully count on them at all. (Maxwell)

As leaders, we should possess and display these qualities so that we attract followers who also have those traits. We need to display the same kind of character that we want to see in our followers.

The reflection question tonight asks: "How do you show your dependability?" How do you show your team that you are dependable? Are you dependable? If not, how can you expect your followers to be? In order for them to do or be something, you must first show them that you are willing to do or be the same. It all boils down to a simple phrase: Practice what you preach. It is not always easy, and sometimes we will fail at it, but it is something that we must strive for, especially in leadership matters. Ask God to help you with this area if it is one that you struggle with. Follow through with His guidance and put it into practice!

God bless you!